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18
Feb

365/24/7

No that’s not some alien code. It’s a reminder to me that it’s been exactly a year since my last cigarette. No more smoking for me–ever. I finally believe that now. I don’t need any more cancer sticks, thank you.

What convinced me of this was being able to finish my first writing project since giving up the demon weed (tobacco, what did you think I meant?). Now I am writing up a storm to make up for lost time.

Oh, to breathe those non-smoke-filled sighs of relief. Thank you Universe for all your help.

Now back to work–lol

07
Jan

Baby, remember my name . . .you know the rest


My main reason for adopting literature as a profession was that, as the author is never seen by his clients, he need not dressed respectably.

George Bernard Shaw said those words some time ago and I suspect his tongue was firmly in his cheek when he said them. Shaw, private writer, was also a public figure, as are most published authors. Even if you aren’t recognizable to the masses on the streets, your readers know you and it’s impossible not to let bits and pieces of the personal you seep into your manuscripts or the many tools we use these days to promote ourselves, like the blog you’re reading now. Ask most writers and they’ll tell you they wouldn’t eschew a little notoriety, enough to sell a few more books, anyway. That real heavy-duty sort of fame? That’s a different story.

Even when writers achieve fame, it doesn’t come at one tenth the level that movie or film folk do. No phalanx of photogs are dogging Stephen King’s every move; no one is following Nora into the supermarket. I’ve been recognized a couple of times, but my fans only had well wishes for me. I can’t imagine what it would be like to be someone like Britney Spears and have millions of people watching my every move, hoping, more often than not, that I will embarrass myself in some way, appear without my underwear, endanger my health or jeopardize my career or my right to raise my children–anything that will make me a more interesting dinner table conversation.

In the last few months while people have been consumed with Britneywatching, labeling her a “pop tart” to other names I can’t print here, I’ve wondered where our compassion has gone as a people. There used to be a time in this country where you wouldn’t have published a negative word about a celebrity without risking being labeled a scandal sheet. Now, this kind of nonsense is on the front page of some the most, ahem, respectable papers in the nation. And rather than see her behavior as an enormous, nation-wide cry for help, even more ridicule is heaped upon her. And how old is this child? 26?

I know I didn’t know my ass from a hole in the ground at that age. And thankfully, I’ve always had a tremendous support system around me, to ground me, to pick me up when I’m down, to laugh and to cry with. People to pull me back from the edge when I’m standing too close. People I look out for as well.

That’s all you can ask for as a person, public or otherwise. And maybe what we owe each other is just a bit more kindness. That’s my take on it anyway.

05
Oct

Tagged

I have been tagged by Elizabeth Mahon to participate in the latest book meme going, so here goes:

Total number of books: Unfair question. I have books on my bookshelves three deep. I have boxes of books I never unpacked after my last move. I have cartons of kids books for teaching. I’m not doing all that counting. Suffice it to say, we are at the point where the hubby and I are buying up stock in shelving companies.

Last Book Read: I’ve always been a much bigger reader of non-fiction than fiction. I am currently reading African Spirituality by Anthony Ephirim-Donkor. Very interesting. Love the matrifocal worldview, thank you.

Last book bought: A great big book on mythology. I can’t get enough of this stuff.

Five meaningful books: In no particular order, here are:

Harriet the Spy- I thought I was young Harriet, writer-to-be. I went on Harriet-like escapades until my mother found out. All I can say about that is, ouch!


Romeo and Juliet
-No, not the bard’s but Marchette Chute’s children’s version. It inspired both a love of great literature and great love stories.

Unknown Harlequin Presents-representing the first yet forgotten romance novel I read. I might not have remembered the plot, characters or author, but I was hooked on the genre.

To Kill a Mockingbird -beautiful story that is still one of my favorite books

Spellbound
-sorry to throw one of my own in there, but it’s the one that started it all for me. I’d started that book when I was 16 and working on it for all those years was a defining thing for me.

And so I’m tagging A C Menchan, Bettye Griffin, Chicki Brown, Gwyneth Bolton and Caridad Piniero.

20
Sep

The Evil that men do (betcha didn’t know that quote came from the bard)


I don’t know if all of you are aware of this, but in my other life, away from writing, I dabble a little in things esoteric. On one of the sites I was lead to there was the Witch’s Psalm (see my Reiki website for the whole thing). One line in particular grabbed me, which is:

Evil is only misunderstood energy

To this I say, hmmmm. I’ve never seen evil as some unified force like Satan or the devil that wreaks havoc on humans. Whatever evil there is in the world we do to each other. A Khalil Gibran quote comes to mind:

Of the good in you I can speak, but not the evil, for what is evil but good tortured by hunger and thirst. When good is hungry it seeks food even in dark caves, and when it thirsts, it drinks even of dead waters.

If you’re wondering where I’m going with this, I’ll tell you. When you write crime fiction, especially if your characters are three dimensional, you have to have some theory as to how they got that way. Some folks like to say he was just crazy, or inexplicable motivated but I can’t go that route. I feel a compulsion to know and thereafter impart to me readers exactly what my villain is about. And since I don’t believe folks are born evil or tormented by un-manmade demons, their backstories need to be complex and plausible. As a reader, those are the types of stories I enjoy as well. As a mother I’m glad neither of my kids is out in the back torturing bunny rabbits of something. That’s not a good sign in fiction or in life.

06
Aug

Oh, the Humanity!!!


Why, oh, why do they keep letting Nicole Kidman ruin perfectly good films? Can someone explain this to me? It’s bad enough when she appears in first-run pictures with the likes of her former husbandlet Tom Cruise, who I can’t stand anyway. Then she goes and appears beside George Clooney, spoiling any chance of me getting my drool on (my mind keeps thinking what kind of dufus must he be to like Nicole Kidman! Ack! The bomb had more of a personality than she did). But now she’s got the nerve to try to remake one of my all time favorite movies The Invasion of the Body Snatchers. That thought is scarier than the concept of the movie. How will the audience know the difference between Kidman before the bodysnatchers get her and afterward? She’s not exactly a bundle of emotions from the get go. On top of that, she’s got to ruin my ubercrush on Bond hunk Daniel Craig on top of it? Will the torture never end???

Oddly, the only movie I liked her in was the one where she was a ghost who’d killed her children. Seemed sort of fitting. Ah well, Netflix can keep that new bodysnatchers when it comes out.

30
Jul

What You Were Born to (ahem) Read

I did my blogging thing over at Blogging in Black in the wee hours of the morning since I thought today (Monday) was the 30th only to realize I’d slipped up on my calendar by a day.

Hope you enjoy the post!

16
Jul

Once more–with feeling

Saturday at Blogging in Black, Alvin Romer of the Romer Review discusses RWA and the role of the black author inside it. I will let Mr. Romer’s post speak for itself. He posits some very interesting questions.

My beef is with the comments to his post. I am sick of ignorant comments about what black authors should or should not be doing regarding racism in the publishing industry, and folks making pronouncements about anyone who doesn’t follow their particular agenda. Why should I–why should any author–be taken to task for how, when, where or in what manner we deem it proper to speak out on the issues that affect US? Because I have not said anything in a manner that pleases the naysayer, does that mean I have done nothing? Do I care what they think? I’m sure you can figure that answer out for yourself. It’s very easy to figure out what other people should be doing when you have absolutely nothing at stake yourself.

Getting back to what Alvin had to say, I admit I am a member of RWA. It is a professional organization. I am a professional. ‘Nuff said. Should RWA be more sensitive to issues brought forth by it’s non-white members? You betcha. Am I going to try to force my views on them? Not on your life. IMO, whoever runs RWA and at least some portion of its membership appears to want to have its head in the sand regarding any form of change. That’s not a black thang or a white thang, it’s an adaptation thang (sorry, I saw Jurassic Park 2 last night).

You know what, I belong to my teacher’s union, too. All issues get decided in favor or whatever will suit middle and high school needs. As elementary teacher’s we get screwed. What else is new? Be a grown up. Deal with it.

My concern has always been for who reads my books. They are black, white, Latino/Latina, male, female, young old etc. How do I know? Because they tell me. I always make sure to include people of varying ethnicities in my books because that is what my world is like: that’s what my family is like. I have been reviewed and interviewed by every stripe of website out there and received mostly praise for my work.

That being said, I refuse to devote any significant portion of my time decrying the racism in the publishing industry to readers. If you don’t want to read my book, whether it’s because you’re a racist who doesn’t read black romance or a non-racist who doesn’t read black romance, fine. If you don’t like my name or you don’t like mystery with your romance or the cover looks too dark or too silly or the guy is bald and in the story your man had hair, whatever. If you don’t want to read my book, for god’s sake, put the damn thing down. Find something you do like to read and enjoy it.

Like anything else in the publishing industry, where your book is placed, what cover goes on it, where it is shelved and how many get printed is decided in the publishing house. That’s the battleground. As long as publishers feel the need to segregate us, that’s how it will go. They say that readers prefer it when black books are broken out and sales go up. From my days working in publishing and marketing, I know you can get a survey to say just about anything you want to if your interest is more in getting the desired results than listening to what your customer base says. I am not accusing the industry of shady practices, only saying that I put less stock in market research than most people might.

I’ve also never been one to try to shame people into doing what I think they should do. Those who cry “foul” to the romance readership at large may get a lot of name recognition and as many hits as kudos for their efforts, but I’d rather show people what they’re missing instead of whacking them over the head and trying to shove a book under their nose, figuratively of course. Your style may vary. Do what you have to do. Just realize I’ll do the same–in my own way, natch.

27
Jun

Now they tell me . . .

As if the great unwashed masses still seeking an agent or editor didn’t have enough to worry about, here comes news that there may yet be something else to worry about. Your website or blog may be killing you–or rather killing your chances of finding said agent or editor.

Over at The Midnight Hour, Chey MaCray posts comments from 11 editors and agents about how your online presence can piss them off.

We writers like to communicate. That’s why we’re in this business. But where do you draw the line between a little venting and full blown kvetching? Where do you draw the line between a little honest commentary and being an ass? Damned if I know.

I’ve always tried to let humor be my guide in what I print here. Often times people have taken me more seriously than I intended (damn internet!) but I admit I’ve done my share of ranting, too. When I first started blogging, I thought that was de rigeur. Even if it is, I don’t give a crap anymore. I’d rather try to brighten (he, he) folks’ day with my own brand of wit than follow the rant du jour. But that’s just me. YMMV (your mileage may vary).

20
Jun

That’s What You Say

Here’s why writers like to read other writer’s blogs. We’re all so damn clever. I present to you now PBWriter’s take on what writers are thinking while others question. All I can do is mutter a delicious he, he, he.

Now back to work. (Sound of whip cracking, and not in a good way!)

11
Jun

Hello Out there

Ye gods and little fishes, as my grandmother would say. I can’t believe this is my first post for June of this year. I went from being totally prolific on this blog to being drip-dropific. Shame, shame. Part of it is coping with the after effects of giving up smoking. After being smoke free for a little more than three months I am freaking falling apart. Or I was. I had that Respiratory Infection that Wouldn’t Die for a while. But now even that is gone. I just feel wrung out. I guess it’s time now for Dee Dee to gain some more strength.

Anyhoo, I’m back. Anybody got anything interesting they want to talk about? If so, give me a buzz.





Get into your most comfortable reading chair, take off your shoes, turn off the phone and let Ms. Savoy's incredible talent take you away. --Debra Ross, Romance in Color

A skewed sense of humor has kept me sane through 10+ years of teaching and almost as many writing. I invite you to come in and look around. Leave a comment if you like. My goal is to leave you with a smile on your face and a few new thoughts to mull over. If you like the blog, please tell your friends. If not, tell your enemies.

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